Your friends or extended family want to visit Europe. You also want to visit Europe. Before you know it, someone says “Hey! Let’s go together!”

You’re thinking “why not?” It would be nice to travel with new people. These days the travel possibilities are endless, including group travel (with other couples or families), multi-generational travel, “girls’ getaways” and “mancations”. It’s a chance to try something new, to meet people and reconnect.

Besides, there are many reasons to go with people you might not have traveled with before. You’ll have a chance to build on your relationship — you get to know each other better and create long-lasting memories. You’ll have a chance to experience things you might not have tried otherwise, and share your own experiences with others. (Not to mention sharing the expenses too!)

But the possible pitfalls? Arguments — especially ones that could damage a friendship or family tie. Also, you’re spending a lot of time and money on this trip, so you want as little fuss as possible.

If you’re traveling with new people, here’s what you can do to make the trip a little smoother:

Compare styles. The choice of destination and travel date aren’t the only things you’ll have to agree on. To find out if you’re compatible, here are a few things to discuss before you get down to details:

- Budget. Like it or not, you have to talk about money because it’s going to influence other factors. Agree on some reasonable numbers for meals, accommodations, transportation and activities so everyone can afford the fun while comfortably staying within their means.

- Pace. Do you want to explore one place in depth (like spending a week in Paris), or do you prefer more variety (like a European tour where you’re in a new country every few days)?

- Accommodations. From hostels to high-end hotels, there are places to stay to suit any taste and budget. Vacation rentals are also an affordable option for groups. What type you choose, and how many rooms you’ll need, will depend on people’s comfort levels. (See Save with vacation rentals and Hostels: Not just for backpackers.)

- Transportation. If you’re visiting more than one country, are you willing to hop a bus or train to get around, or do you prefer air travel only? Are cruises an option too?

- Activities. It’s not always possible to mix sports with art galleries and tours of the countryside with days at museums. Find out which activities are “must haves” versus “off the table”.

- Routine. Your daily habits — like when you go to bed, how late you sleep in and when you prefer to bathe — may be different. Routines don’t have to match, but they do need to work together.

- Deal breakers. Is there anything you absolutely won’t do? Any health issues that require consideration? It’s best to get them out in the open in the planning stages.